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Week Two - Bleed It Out: The MOR experience is a Painful Poison. The Pain of having lived in an MOR and the Shock of Finding Out that you are in a Relationship with a Closeted LGBTQ person, Seeps into your very Bones and Poisons every area of your Life. In this second week, you will go through Carefully Crafted Exercises designed to help you Bleed Out the Poison of your MOR Experience so you are Ready to Heal. You will have a chance to Share your Pain, every Gory Detail of it, in a Safe Space filled with people who Implicitly Understand.
 

Week Three - Inner Critic: The MOR Experience Beats you Down. A Universal Hallmark of the MOR Experience is feeling like you're Not Good Enough and that you are what's Wrong. That Unspoken (and False) Criticism becomes very Hurtful Ammunition that your Inner Critic uses against you. What would your life be like without the Constant Criticism from your Inner Critic? Who would you be without that Voice constantly telling you that you aren't Enough, that Nobody will ever Love you, and that your life will Never be Good again? In this third week, you will learn how to Arm yourself with Knowledge and Empowerment to put your Inner Critic in its place, Once and for All.  
 

Week Four - Your Story: The MOR Experience is Completely Life Altering. In the Aftermath of your MOR, it is difficult to Remember Who You Are and What Your Life Is without your MOR Experience. You can't Change the Facts of your MOR Story, but you Can Change How you Tell it to yourself. Who would you be Without your MOR Story? In this fourth week, you will Discover that you do have an Empowered Identity, a Beautiful Life, and a Brand-New Story After and Beyond your MOR Experience.
 

Week Five - Sacred Practice (revisited): The MOR Experience Bleeds you Dry. Creating and Expanding a Sacred Practice to Secure yourself Against Violation is so Important that we Revisit it. In this fifth week, you will Go Deeper and Explore how Archetypes can Empower your Healing, Discover the Divinity in Nature, Learn about the Sacredness Inherent in all Religions, and Play with the Magic of Ritual. You will also learn Practical Tools to Secure your Empathic Self Against Violation because so many Straight Spouses are Empaths.
 

Week Six - Adult Relationships: The MOR Experience Reinforces Dysfunctional Relationship Skills. In the Aftermath of D-Day, it's normal to Question all your Relationships. Who can you Trust? Do you even have any Normal, Healthy
Relationships? It's Safe to Say, that the Relationship Skills you Practiced for years in your MOR (out of necessity) were Unhealthy and Maladaptive. In this sixth week, you will Begin to Put into Practice the Fundamentals of Healthy Adult Relationships, Starting with Powerful Self-Love and Boundaries.
 

Week Seven - Romantic Relationships: The MOR Experience Destroys your Trust. When the Dust from your MOR Settles, it can be Very Scary to think about a New Romantic Relationship. How can you Trust Love again, Trust Yourself again, and Trust Someone Else again? Do you even Dare to Dream about a New Romance? In this seventh week, you will Begin to Put into Practice the Fundamentals of Healthy Romantic Relationships that were Missing and/or Distorted in your MOR Experience.
 

Week Eight - Launch Yourself: The MOR Experience is Not The End. When D-Day hits, it Feels like The End, but it's Not The End; it Does Get Better. You, your Life, and your Future are all Full of Potential and Possibility. In this final week, you will Craft a Dazzling Vision for your Future, one that is So Bright it will Burn your Eyes, and Set a Goal for yourself, Any Goal, One that is So Big, it Requires you to Change. You will Securely Launch yourself Smack Dab into the Middle of “It Gets better.”